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Winter’s End: Saying Goodbye to My Mom

Two weeks ago at this moment, I was offering my mom’s eulogy at her funeral mass. Several people who were present and some others who couldn’t make it in person asked me to share a copy of my words, so here they are.

Even as someone who has made a profession of writing, this was by far my hardest assignment yet. As is always the case when we lose someone we love, it is near impossible to find words to capture the kaleidoscope of feelings that comes with a loss of this magnitude. The loss of my mom was something my brother and I have been getting ready for in some ways for many years, though no amount of forewarning can prepare you to say goodbye to the person who brought you into this world.

The past weeks have been a beautifully intertwined and always-evolving practice of compassion, gratitude and grief. I’ve been inspired to allow everything that moves through me and feel each unique wave deeply. As my family and I continue to process and carry forward in healing, I’m buoyed by the love and support of our communities at this time. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

My mom was so many things to so many people, and that has never been more clear to me than in the last few days since she passed. Any of you who have lost a close loved one may be familiar with the experience. As condolences begin to pour in from sometimes-unexpected sources, you have the comforting realization that the person you’ve lost had a larger impact and was better loved than you knew.

Since my mom’s passing, it’s been heartwarming to hear stories from so many of you who loved her. Across the reflections shared by people who span many different sectors and times in her life, several common themes emerge. Time and time again, I’ve heard people share their memories of my mother’s generosity; her intelligence; her work ethic; her determination; her strength; her warmth; her loyalty; and above all else, her love.

From adopting rescue dogs to always being the willing and eager host for gatherings of friends for my brother and me, my mom had an open heart and never hesitated to love. For anyone who needed help, she made it her personal mission to fill that need, and I’ve heard from many of her friends this week who shared stories of moments they could use help when she showed up, places they required support where she stepped up.

She placed such emphatic pride in her role as mother that she eagerly outstretched that love to any friends Mike and I brought into the house as if they too were her own children. As news of her passing spread, Mike and I heard from so many friends of ours who recounted feeling so safe, loved and supported in our mom’s home. A number of our friends had even affectionately come to call her “Mama Bro” or “Mommy 2.”

Meanwhile, Mike and I were fortunate enough to be the most enduring recipients of her love. Since our childhood, the affectionate exchange that my mom always shared with Mike and me was “love you more than the world, and then some.” We never doubted that and we never will.

Although my mom is no longer physically present with us, the lessons she taught us about the world and the things she showed us about ourselves have shaped us and will continue to guide us for the rest of our lives.

My mom demonstrated the virtue of generosity, and through her selflessness, I also learned the value of self-care. My mom demonstrated the value of work ethic and a job well-done, and through her penchant for perfectionism, I also learned the importance of embracing flaws and cutting yourself a break. My mom demonstrated the ability to simultaneously wear multiple hats and juggle many priorities, and through that controlled strength, I also learned the value of vulnerability and surrender. My mom demonstrated the importance of holding yourself and others to a high standard, and through those expectations, I also learned the invaluable grace of forgiveness and acceptance.

Despite all of our well-manicured facades, all of us face our challenges, all of us feel pain, and all of us know struggle. Through her long illness, my mom certainly shouldered her fair share of hardship and hurt, and in moments, that pain hung over her and between her loved ones like a cloud.

But now, in this first week of spring, I’m watching the clouds of winter begin to dissipate and the beautiful buds of new life return. And as we say goodbye to my mom, I’m reminded that when the impermanence of our personal pain passes, what we’re left with is love. And that’s my mom’s legacy. Just love.

I would be remiss if I didn’t spend a few moments acknowledging my brother Michael. My brother was by my mom’s side until the very end. As her health declined especially in recent months, he was there to bring her food, do her laundry, share his music and brighten her life in the way that only he could. He never turned away, never flinched, never faltered. Michael, thank you for showing up for mom in ways I was not capable. Thank you for being the biggest and steadiest source of light and love in her entire life. And that huge heart of my mom’s that I keep hearing friends and family remember – I see that living on and shining so brightly in my brother and I constantly marvel at the pure and loving way he moves through the world.

More than anything in the world, my brother and I wanted for our mom a life of happiness that was free of pain. In leaving this life, my mom released any heaviness and hurt she was harboring, and lighter for letting that go, I can now feel her newfound freedom all around me. Anytime I feel untethered at her absence or unmoored by her loss, I need only look so far as my own daughter, Marianne’s beloved Pearl. In all those frequent moments where I find myself awestruck by the bottomless depth of my love for Pearl, I will feel my own mother’s love encircling me as well.

My memories of my mother will not be tinged with pain or tainted by sadness. When she dances back into my mind, I will see her surrounded by blissful happiness, abundant in radiant health and filled with a perfect peace. When she comes back to me, I’ll be reminded of everything she gave to those she loved and let that charge me to be more present, more generous and more loving in this life. I invite all of you to do the same.

Mom, thank you for bringing us into this world, and for all that you gave and taught us. May you be happy, may you be healthy, and may you be free of suffering and full of peace. We love you more than the world and then some.

April 10, 2018 0 Comments

Political Processing: A Time to Heal

At eight months pregnant, I woke up this morning with the worst hangover of my life. Though I didn’t have a sip to drink last night, all the usual feelings were present: anxiety, fear, uncertainty, guilt, grief. The events and outcome of recent months will take some processing. Here’s what I’ve come up with so far…

craggy-7Today, we must feel. Feel all of it. Take inventory of the myriad feelings that both brought our nation to this election and will now stem from it. The disappointment and shock. The anger and sadness. For some voters, perhaps it’s the affirmation of feeling seen and elation of being heard for the first time in a while. Whatever this election elicits in us individually, the brave path forward starts with striving to see our shadow and survey both sides of this experience with compassion.

Today we feel, and tomorrow we heal. Rather than continuing to wallow in the base levels of shame and blame, now is a time for rigorous understanding and uncompromising courage, along with an unprecedented level of personal reckoning and collective responsibility.

Our country and world are clearly at a critical point of grieving deep losses that have accumulated at a staggering rate in recent memory. The resulting rawness and vulnerability can also make way for wounds to be healed, but that depends on how we carry ourselves in the moments that follow.

Now is not the time to deepen the divisions that got us here by making ourselves good and our perceived opponents bad, us right and the other wrong. Rather than reinforce the mental framework that created this deep chasm that separates us, we must seek to create common ground from which we can begin to build bridges and foster healing as a whole.

Rather than be paralyzed by anxiety for the little girl my husband and I are bringing into this world next month, I elect to combat hatred with vigorous connection and confront fear with relentless courage. For myself and my daughter, and for ourselves and all of our children, we can choose to fight the sometimes-overwhelming sense of futility by stepping up, not shrinking back; leaning in, not checking out.

I invite you to drop your retaliatory unfriending of Facebook connections in the other camp. This moment demands inclusion and community, not further distance and isolation.

All is not lost. This moment can serve as a catalyst that calls upon our voices to become clearer and our intentions to become purer. The path forward is still being blazed and what happens next depends on how we proceed. Be courageous and compassionate, my friends. Yes, all of you. Sending love to all of us today.

November 9, 2016 0 Comments

Autumnal Equinox Flow and Slow Yoga

Rich in symbolism, the transition into the fall season invites us to shift our outwardly focused energies inward to go from action to contemplation, growth to incubation and fruitfulness to composting. This practice will invite us to follow the lead of the seasonal shift and guide us to find balance in transition.

Join us on the autumnal equinox as we mark the change in season and reflect on what shifts it brings to bear on our lives. Just as fall leads us from sun to moon and yang to yin, this all-levels practice will guide us on a journey from the movement of the outside world to the stillness that exists within.

Beginning with a vinyasa flow to build heat and uncover layers ready to be shed, this class will progress toward longer holds of various gentle and restorative postures before closing in a sweet and savory savasana to allow body, mind and spirit space to integrate the benefits of the practice.

WHAT: Autumnal Equinox Flow and Slow Yoga
WHEN: 6:30 to 8 p.m. Thursday, Sept. 22
WHERE: Inspired Change Yoga in Biltmore Park, 2 Town Square Blvd., Suite 180, Asheville, NC 28803
WHO: All levels of students
HOW MUCH: $5 for Inspired Change members; $15 for nonmembers or two for $20

Fall Equinox Yoga


August 31, 2016 0 Comments

Thanks 2015, It’s Been Real

Dear 2015,

Thank you thank you thank you.

Thank you for showing me higher highs and lower lows along this rollercoaster of life, and challenging me to take in the immense perspective gained from the valleys just as much as the peaks. Thank you for allowing the bumpy patches to crack my heart open, and for the capacity to stay present to feel the resulting rawness and vulnerability. Thank you for tears—of both side-splitting laughter and heart-breaking sorrow; and for the good fortune to have more of the former than the latter. 

Cari vinyasa (5)Thank you for demonstrating time and time again that true contentment comes from being willing to lean into—rather than resist or run from—the twists and turns along the way. Thank you for the lesson that coming undone does not lead to the end of me.

Thank you for the moments when my mental muscle memory engaged to brace for impact, to clench or control, and I chose instead to surrender and feel the reverberations. Thank you for moments when the ground shifted beneath my feet and I was able to ride the aftershocks.

Thank you for every opportunity I seized to lean in to sensation and emotion when it may have felt better to back away or tune out, and each time I chose to soften when my impulse was to harden.

Thank you for daring me to become less perfect and more potent in sharing, serving and speaking from the heart. Thank you for teaching me what my own voice sounds like, what my own boundaries feel like and how to clearly and compassionately communicate with both.

Thank you for life in a new home where I can connect each day to the beauty of nature and to work that inspires and challenges me to grow. Thank you for supportive friends who seem like family, and truly amazing family I would choose as friends.

Thank you for holding me in an abundance of loving relationships. Some nourish my deepest core, others push my boundaries and all help me know my truest center. I am grateful for each and every one of them.

Thank you for the burdens that at times seemed to weigh me down but eventually pulled me toward a new lightness. Thank you for pushing my edges and blurring the lines around me in ways that forced me to more clearly examine and define my boundaries. Thank you for all of the moments and teachers who have held a mirror up to my experience, and allowed me to see more clearly on the other side.

Thank you for the revelation that when I stop striving for the “right” answer, I make space for what’s really true and most essential to emerge naturally.

Thank you for guiding me back closer to my self.

Thank you for being such a pivotal part of my journey, 2015. I’m wiser for your presence.

In gratitude and onward to 2016,

January 1, 2016 0 Comments

Self-Care is Not Self-Indulgent

After running nonstop the past few weeks in preparation for an upcoming move, I stepped away from the boxes and packing tape today for a leisurely morning to myself.

Choosing to disregard the voices in my head about how “self-indulgent” I was being and all the time I was “wasting,” I started by walking our dog around a scenic pond near home and continued on to a morning yoga class followed by an hour-long massage that my husband had given me for my birthday last year. (Yes, last year.)

Seated Forward Fold 2

Coming from a background colored by codependency, it’s often challenging for me to devote time to care for myself without the shame and guilt demons popping up to remind me of how extravagant and selfish I’m being. These critical voices appear during time I spend alone, whether it’s on practicing yoga, taking a bath, getting a massage or going to therapy. (The fact that I postponed redeeming the massage gift certificate for a year-and-a-half in the first place is an issue I’m sure my therapist and I could discuss at much greater length.)

Particularly for someone who has experienced some degree of trauma, it can feel extremely vulnerable and risky to permit ourselves to be cared for, to drop our guards and allow our bodies to soften and our minds to be at ease. Ironically, in many ways, it begins to feel safer and more comfortable for us to continue operating in the fast-paced, high-tension and high-stakes crisis mode to which we have grown accustomed.

Just as we decide what and how we practice physically with our bodies, we can choose which thought patterns, mental habits and actions we reinforce throughout the rest of our lives. Especially for those of us who have spent much of life functioning in fight-or-flight mode, it’s absolutely vital that we make time to practice the opposite way of being and state of mind by nurturing ourselves.

There’s no question in my mind that I’m at my best when I am caring for myself and (equally challenging) allowing people to care for me just as much as I care for others. But since that doesn’t come naturally to me yet, it requires practice and mindfulness.

Beyond my yoga asana practice, this morning’s broader self-care regimen was for me a practice in worthiness. Today, my practice is one of knowing I am worthy of relaxing, feeling good, having fun, taking care of myself and even having others take care of me.

That practice made for a lovely morning.

October 8, 2014 0 Comments

9 Obstacles That Interrupt Our Practice and Block Our Progress

We’ve all been there. There you are, plugging along and making progress on the job, at home or in love, and bam. Sometimes out of nowhere, you hit a roadblock that stops you dead in your tracks.

ScorpionCrop.jpgOccasionally these hurdles are external in nature, but more often than not, the obstacles in our lives are (at least partially) of our own making.

As they say, awareness is half the battle, and in the Yoga Sutras, Patanjali throws all of us truth-seekers a bone in astutely outlining nine antarayas, or common impediments to watch for during our personal practice and inner journey. The term “practice” can be applied in a broader context here, as I’ve seen these same obstacles manifest both on the mat in my body and mind, and off the mat in my relationships and work.

  1. Vyadhi: This first obstacle is often defined as illness or disease. Although vyadhi may show up most obviously in the form of a physical pain or sickness that is beyond our control, a more subtle source can derive from a consistent negativity or other unproductive mental imbalance. A lack of self-care, whether mental, emotional or physical, can lead to or perpetuate this dis-ease.

  2. Styana: When we find ourselves face to face with an apathetic approach or feeling of mental stagnation, styana is often on hand. This “so what, who cares” attitude can prevent us from taking the right and necessary action for growth, thwarting our progress and delivering a hit to productivity. Taking action despite feelings of ambivalence is key to continuing the momentum in our practice.

  3. Samshaya: This is a big one for many of us who spend entirely too much mental energy doubting ourselves and questioning our self-worth. Samshaya shows up as self-doubt or a lack of confidence in our own power and potential. Reaffirming faith in ourselves is essential to counteract this block.

  4. Pramada: This carelessness, negligence or lack of foresight inadvertently detours us from our our desired destination. Whatever the cause for unclear thinking—whether drunkenness, distraction or other diversion—a lack of mindfulness leads to pramada, taking us off track from where we intend to go.

  5. Alasya: Translated disparately as both fatigue and laziness, alasya often shows up in my life as burnout. When we burn the candle at both ends and fail to take appropriate care of ourselves, it can be difficult to even get out of bed in the morning, let alone tackle the day with the gusto needed to make magic happen. Even one simple measure of self-care, whether that be taking a few minutes to meditate, indulge in a bath or go to bed a half hour earlier, can be enough to recharge our batteries.

  6. Avirati: This obstacle presents itself when we’re overindulging or non-abstaining, often as a result of being driven by cravings or otherwise overpowered by senses and feelings. I find some of the most intense cravings in my life appear as an impulse to self-medicate, numb out or avoid an undesirable thought or feeling I’m having. At the end of the day, it helps to remember, we are not defined by our thoughts, experiences or feelings. In seeing them as passing phases and distinctly separate from our true selves, we take away their power to overwhelm us and drive our actions to excess.

  7. Bhrantidarshana: This often shows up for me as the stories I tell myself in my head. There are plenty of stories or perceptions we all have in our head about the way things are, who people are, and what we are or are not capable of. Bhrantidarshana refers to these erroneous views. Imagine traveling with an outdated GPS. By letting this misinformation and illusion guide our path, we won’t be taking the most efficient route along our path and may very likely be led significantly off course.

  8. Alabdhabhumikatva: In working toward our goals, we inevitably face situations where we feel like we’re failing, not progressing fast enough or inclined to give up altogether. Alabdhabhumikatva can rear its ugly head in these moments by showing up as a lack of perseverance or grounding. The things we want aren’t always easily obtainable, and without fortitude in the face of challenge, it can be tempting to lose our resolve and change directions as soon as the going gets tough.

  9. Anavasthitatva: For all of the in-roads we’ve made with any practice, project or person in our life, all of that can be cut short when we’re incapable of maintaining these gains. We can fall prey to anavasthitatva when instability results in regression and backward movement. Meditation can help us create space and stability and practice the single-pointed focus needed to maintain solid footing.

When I hit a hurdle in life—whether it’s battling writer’s block at my computer, dragging my feet to get on my yoga mat or meditation cushion, or stagnating in my relationships with my self or others—I can often trace the source of said stumble back to one or more of the antarayas outlined by Patanjali in sutras 1.30 to 1.32.

By better understanding the problems that plague us, we can cultivate awareness to anticipate their onset in advance and greater dexterity in circumventing them before they sidetrack us. In identifying these obstacles more clearly, we can remain resolute and persevere in the direction we’re heading in spite of distractions.

A version of this article also appeared in Wanderlust Festival’s Journal on July 10, 2014.

July 10, 2014 0 Comments

Bramacharya and Being Present for the Journey Back to Self

After six weeks of training and working with students with limited mobility due to a variety of injuries or illnesses, last night marked the end of my amazing therapeutics apprenticeship with Gabriel Halpern.

During last week’s class, in discussing bramacharya and the importance of not addicting oneself or numbing out to your experience, Gabriel said, “All of yoga is to sensitize yourself to feel more deeply.”

Though that may seem obvious and on some level it’s a large part of the reason I’ve been drawn to yoga for all of these years, I had never articulated it to myself in those terms. Gabriel’s words hit the nail on the head for me and nicely sum up the sometimes-rocky-but-always-rewarding journey I’ve been on in recent years.

Photo courtesy of Petras Barcas Photography |

Photo courtesy of Petras Barcas Photography |

Yoga is a process of coming back to our true selves, and the power of my practice has been profound in guiding me along that path back home in recent years.

Whether in a challenging pose that stretches your body or a difficult personal situation that squeezes your soul, there are so many times in life when it would be much easier to numb out. However, rather than give in to any number of the distractions available to divert our attention away from the present moment, it’s much more powerful to remain where you are with awareness and feel what you’re feeling.

It seems so simple and basic, but when you begin to watch for it, it’s amazing how often we feel compelled to distract our minds with drinks, drugs, food, TV, smart phones and countless other preoccupations. Rather than stay to notice and sit with our discomfort, pain or boredom, we run away and distract ourselves.

It’s not always easy to feel what we’re feeling. If we’ve been masking feelings and distracting ourselves with external filler for too long, it can be extremely difficult to even identify your mental or emotional state from moment to moment. And for those of us lucky enough to still be in touch with and aware of our feelings, experiencing them can still be really uncomfortable at times. Things often come up that we don’t want to feel, and it’s not a walk in the park by any stretch of the imagination.

The practice lies in resisting the urge to brush our feelings under the rug, put on a happy face or otherwise addict ourselves to avoidance.

Rather than constantly trying to fill all the gaps, my practice has taught me to relish space, even (and especially) when it’s unpleasant. By giving myself that room to feel, breathe and be present unconditionally, the mental fog of diversions and distractions has started to lift.

The process of returning to myself and the experience of making choices informed by that connection hasn’t always been easy, comfortable or fun, but it has been real. And at the end of the day, an authentic life lived with with presence and experienced with awareness is the best any of us can hope for anyway.

May 16, 2014 0 Comments

Workshop Aims at Overcoming Obstacles and Unblocking Flow

Mark your calendars for a new workshop coming in June—”From The Inside Out: Flowing Through Obstacles With Empowerment and Ease”—geared toward transcending the obstacles that show up in our practice and life as impediments to progress and growth.

Photo courtesy of Petras Barcas Photography |

Photo courtesy of Petras Barcas Photography |

Held from 1 to 4 p.m. Saturday, June 7 at Blissed Out Yoga in Elmhurst by myself and Omega Institute Resident Life Coach Chrystal Kubis, this workshop will teach students how to apply the insights and philosophy of yoga to overcome the inner and outer obstacles in life with less stress and more simplicity.

Through a combination of asana, meditation and discussion, students will learn essential practical applications of yogic principles and other strategic navigational tools for thriving in spite of difficulties.

We’ll explore these blockages to freedom and flow in our lives in a variety of ways, including through a discussion of Patanjali’s Yoga Sutras which characterized these hurdles as the nine antarayas.

Students will leave with a greater sense of empowerment, freedom and a toolbox of peaceful-yet-powerful techniques for shifting their perspective, applying the practice of yoga off the mat, and rising above the challenges of day-to-day life.

The workshop cost is $40 in advance, or $45 at the door. Click here and select the site’s workshops tab to register and pay in advance. 

I’m thrilled to be co-hosting this workshop with Chrystal Kubis. A native of the western suburbs of Chicago and now based in Sarasota, FL, Chrystal has led trainings on personal transformation and empowerment across the country. She’s been honored to serve the last four years as faculty and resident life coach for Omega Institute in Rhinebeck, NY.

Along with benefiting from the many lessons of life, Chrystal has a degree in Holistic Wellness from the Southwest Institute of Healing Arts, and holds certifications as a Life Coach, Massage Therapist, Yoga Instructor, Qi Gong Healer, and Reiki Master. She is passionate about working with people who are hungry for shifts and ready to transform both challenges and emotions into strength, flow, wild yes’s and inner freedom.

May 14, 2014 0 Comments

6 Steps To Stimulate Creativity and New Growth in Your Life

I was a creative child. Whether at dinner with family or a social gathering with friends, I was rarely without a notepad on hand to scribble down my latest poem or short story whenever inspiration struck.

Photo courtesy of Petras Barcas Photography |

Photo courtesy of Petras Barcas Photography |

And it did. Often.

But it suddenly occurred to me last year that something had shifted. At some point in my adulthood, I had lost touch with my creative streak, and unfortunately it seemed to have become buried pretty deep.

The realization struck me shortly after leaving my full-time job in journalism last summer. I had vowed to myself that once I left my journalism career to pursue teaching yoga full-time, I would also return to my roots of writing for personal fulfillment and self-expression rather than just a paycheck.

As it turns out, that was easier said than done. After seven years in a career that often demanded work 12 hours a day and seven days a week, and coming off of a challenging year in my personal life to boot, my creative juices were sapped and I was drained.

Many of us are accustomed to filling every moment of our days with work, family and other obligations. We’re left with no energy to put into new growth and creative pursuits, so our personal exploration and self-fulfillment get put on the back burner. Desires and things we’d like to do regularly take second priority to obligations and things we feel we must do.

Over the past six months – since recognizing the rift between me and my imagination – I have watched the slow but sure return of my desire to write and create with the support of some simple practices. It is my hope that they may also help you connect to more inspired work, fulfilled relationships or anything else you desire.

  1. Make space for new growth: First things first, remove the weeds to create space for growth on new fertile ground. If you fill up your schedule 100 percent, you allow no room for expansion into something new. When we are constantly exhausting ourselves rushing from one thing to another, it’s hard to be mindful enough to even recognize as new opportunities appear. In both your personal or professional life, remove the filler and relish the emptiness of having space for new creation. Yes, at times it can feel better in the short-term to have your schedule full just so you don’t notice its emptiness, but you have to be willing to sustain short-term discomfort to free yourself up and make room for organic growth and expansion in the future.
  2. Live with intention: The areas where you direct attention and energy play a big role in charting the course of your life. The process of restoring creativity involves intention and awareness to consciously spend time on things that contribute to your long-term growth and happiness. Once you identify goals, discern which time commitments support growth in that direction and which ones set you back. Shift your time to prioritize quality and creativity, not only quantity and productivity. As much as possible, commit your time judiciously to prioritize the things that move you forward.
  3. Invest in yourself: Make time for the things that light you up. Sometimes you have to say no to obligations and others, so you can say yes to yourself. Whether it’s via yoga, meditation, reading or sleeping in, invest time and energy to care for yourself so you have more fullness and presence to share with others. Be generous with yourself first and let abundance then spill over onto others.
  4. Cut the cord: Cut the cord between yourself and your smartphone. If you’re constantly inundating yourself with external stimulation, how can you expect to receive internal inspiration? If you rely on something outside yourself for entertainment every time you get bored, you leave no room for your inner monologue and imagination. If you need to fan the creative fire, turn to the natural, not artificial, sources of inspiration all around you. Devote some part of your day to be completely device-free.
  5. Practice the power of the pause: It’s amazing what ideas and inspiration reveal themselves with stillness and silence as you give your mind the clearing necessary for things to reveal themselves to you. Don’t feel the need to fill the pauses in every conversation with others, and be OK in the silent meditative moments with yourself too. These pauses in interactions, between actions and reactions, help foster the perspective and awareness to springboard us into greater authenticity and creativity.
  6. Find a balance of effort and ease: The Yoga Sutras suggest balancing sthira and sukha—effort and ease—in our physical practice, but the concept carries into our lives off the mat too. Of course we don’t want to be passive passengers in our lives, but we can’t expect to control everything either. Many spiritual practices, including yoga and meditation, empower us to walk the line between being proactive enough to set change in motion while ultimately releasing control to allow things to unfold.

By bringing greater awareness to our actions and reactions, and mindfulness to how we commit and structure our time, we can make subtle shifts to carve out space for creativity and possibility to blossom.

A version of this article also appeared in Wanderlust Festival’s Journal on May 1, 2014.

May 5, 2014 0 Comments

Weekend Yoga Retreat Set for May 30 to June 1 at Stonehouse Farm

My dear friend and fellow teacher, Cynthia Woods, and I will be hosting a weekend workshop—”Your Mat As A Mirror: Cultivating Self-Awareness and Self-Study Through Yoga”—from Friday, May 30 to Sunday, June 1 at Stonehouse Farm west of Chicago in DeKalb County.

Photo courtesy of Petras Barcas Photography |

Photo courtesy of Petras Barcas Photography |

Many students begin yoga for purely physical purposes, but it doesn’t take long to realize that there’s so much more to the practice than its myriad health benefits.

You’ve probably begun to notice the effects of yoga carrying off of your mat and spilling over into other sectors of your life. These changes may initially show up as increased patience or presence throughout your day, while in interactions at work or during time spent with loved ones. So, why is this happening and where do you go from here in the process?

Using nature as our backdrop, we’ll introduce some of the basic and foundational philosophies behind the ancient tradition of yoga (such as segments of the Sutras including the yamas and niyamas) as a way to explore how yoga transcends the physical and can be seen in all aspects of life beyond the mat as well.

Through vinyasa and restorative asana, we’ll use physical practice to observe habits in our bodies and minds that show up elsewhere in our lives. We’ll dig deeper into these patterns through a variety of meditation practices, both seated in stillness as well as incorporating walks in the woods and star-gazing at night.

By cultivating this greater self-awareness, we can begin making conscious shifts to become more authentic and aligned in our reactions and interactions in everyday life.

Photo courtesy of Petras Barcas Photography |

Photo courtesy of Petras Barcas Photography |

Whether you’re a beginning student or advanced practitioner, this workshop will bring more mindfulness to your practice and awareness to ways you can apply the same principles and insights of yoga off of your mat in your day-to-day life.

The workshop starts at $200 for the full weekend with Cynthia and me at Stonehouse Farm, including camping and food (with plentiful vegetarian, gluten-free and dairy-free options). Other accommodations, including small and large yurts, are available for a slightly higher rate.

Opened last year about 70 miles west of Chicago, Stonehouse Farm is a new 40-acre yoga retreat center complete with large pond for swimming, wooded paths for walking, and open space with camping and yurts for sleeping.

For more information about the weekend workshop or to register, click here to visit the event page on Stonehouse Farm’s website.

April 6, 2014 0 Comments